How Mindfulness Gives Us Choice


KarenS “We always have a choice. We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us and make us increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder.” ~Pema Chodron

Last night I taught the most absurd yoga class of my 13+ years as a yoga teacher. I taught to a group of about 50 young sorority women and fraternity men in a sorority house. It was insane. It was completely insane. While my expectations were not high for a meaningful yoga offering, I was still shocked by the lack of respect I was given and even more so the lack of any respect for the yoga that was being offered.
To be fair, there were some participants that were legitimately giving it a go and actually doing the poses I was teaching, but there were many just stopping, sitting down on the floor and having a chat or texting on their phones. Even worse there was one young woman who heckled me throughout the whole class.
I kept a sense of humor and laughed it off or ignored what was so shocking I didn’t know what to do. And by the end of the hour I felt I had a choice. I could harden myself, make them all wrong in my mind, be offended and hold back on the goodness that I believe I can share through yoga, or I could put it all on the mat, so to speak, and be who I say I am as a teacher and what this path is all about.
During Savasana, I chose to go to the couple of girls who had been particularly rude and give them both neck massages. As I did, I internally wished them peace and happiness.
Now this is not to toot my own horn. Trust me, I will NEVER teach in a frat or sorority house again. But this experience made me grateful, yet again, that yoga and mindfulness practice have given me the ability to be present even in terribly uncomfortable circumstances and choose to be kind instead of becoming hardened.This weekend we welcome Rebekkah LaDyne to Lila for her HEALING POWER OF MINDFULNESS workshop. Rebekkah is a gifted teacher with the ability to make simple Mindfulness accessible and applicable to all of us in our day to day life. Check out her Meditation for a Challenging Day video blog here and register now.

Lila Yoga is also proud to sponsor YogaLOVE Seattle on June 29th, an amazing event to benefit Street Yoga and Yoga Behind Bars. Join your Seattle Yoga Community for a 108 Sun Salutation-a-thon at Seattle Center’s McCaw Hall. Each attendee agree to raise $108. Check out all the details below!May your month of May be sunny and open-hearted.

In peace,
Kelly Valenzuela

Lila Yoga Director

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Spring Into Spring with Yoga and Ayurveda

This week’s post is by Lila Yoga Instructor Megan Carroll

Cherry blossomWinter is finally over! For many of us, it feels like a reason to celebrate, and
rightfully so; as we emerge from hibernation we are redeemed by the warmth of the
sun, the longer days, and the vibrancy of the plants and animals around us.

Because we are a part of nature, the energies of the transitioning seasons are within
us as well as all around us. Although this is one of the most welcome transitions, it is
good to remember that any transition can be challenging.

As you move into spring you might be feeling a little bit sluggish, stuck, or
depressed. Or maybe you are finding yourself a little bit congested, retaining water,
gaining weight or oversleeping.

Ayurveda, the medicinal aspect of yoga, says that you can blame it all on Kapha.
Kapha is the Ayurvedic term for the energy of this time of year. It is the energy of
water and earth. What do you get when you mix water and earth? You guessed it -
mud. Kapha is a heavy, muddy kind of energy. Hence the heavy, muddy feelings you
might have in your body and/or mind.

In early spring, we are seeped in Kapha. It has been accumulating all through the
winter, and now the warmth of spring comes and challenges the accumulated
Kapha to melt away. As Kapha is “burned off” by the warmer days of spring, you will
experience its heavy, muddy nature, especially if you accumulated too much Kapha
over the winter, as most of us probably did. (It comes from living in an unbalanced
way, out of tune with nature. Don’t blame yourself. It’s hard not to be unbalanced in
the modern world).

leafy greensYou can help shed the excess Kapha using these Ayurvedic techniques:

- Eat lots of leafy greens, and lighter meals in general.

- Try adding ginger to your meals, or drinking ginger tea.

- Give yourself time for a healthy balance of activity and rest.

- Spend time outdoors, connecting to nature.

In your yoga practice;

-Build heat. This doesn’t mean that you have to take up hot yoga or work yourself
to the point of exhaustion (from an Ayurvedic standpoint that would actually be
a really bad idea), but try to do some poses that make you warm and feel a little
challenging.

- Do strong leg work, like lunges and squats. This help to clear the energy channels
in the legs, where Kapha tends to accumulate.

camel pose-Try Surya Namaskar (Sun Salutations), Virbrdranasana 1 and 2 (Warrior 1 and
2), Bhujangasana (Cobra) and Ustrasana (Camel).

-Try to practice as regularly as possible.

Be patient and persistent with all of your Kapha-reducing endeavors. Kapha can be
like a stick in the mud, and it takes real tapas (a Sanskrit word that means effort or
austerity) to get it moving.

All of your efforts will ultimately increase and free up the flow of prana in your
body, allowing you to feel lighter and more vibrant.

It’s time to spring into spring! Enjoy!

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Tired of sleepless nights? Yoga can help!

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This week’s blog is by Lila Yoga Teacher and Certified Yoga Therapist: Darcy Stewart

The Vicious Cycle of Sleeplessness

One of my favorite cartoons shows “Work:” a worried-looking woman sits at her computer while a thought bubble floats above showing her snugly slumbering in her bed at home. In the next frame, “Home:” the same woman lies anxious and awake in her bed with a thought bubble floating above showing her worriedly working at her computer. Sound familiar?

Decades before this type of work/home pattern entered my life, I had my first experience with insomnia and what I call,  “The Vicious Cycle of Sleeplessness” as a young child. When I was about six years old, after a scary television program, my fear-induced stomachache kept me from falling asleep for what seemed like hours (although it could have been much less).  The following evening, as the bedtime routine approached, I found myself getting more and more anxious that I would get a stomachache and struggle getting to sleep again. What do you think happened? Well the anxiety about getting a stomachache, in fact, gave me just that stomachache, and I was again unable to go to sleep peacefully that night. This pattern stayed with me for some time, and is burned in my memory as a very stressful part of my childhood. I don’t know at what point my young brain and body began to better understand this cycle and my role in its creation, but just because I was six doesn’t relegate my experience to the ignorance of children. Like our friend in the cartoon, a lot of adults struggle with sleeplessness in similar ways.

Our physiology and psychology are powerfully interconnected, and although it may feel like we are powerless when that stomachache or those racing thoughts and anxieties begin to surface at night, there is actually a wide range of tools we can employ to help ourselves when rest seems fleeting. How and when we employ our tools makes a difference too. “When should I practice yoga during my day?” and, “What kind of yoga class?” can be just as important as, “Will a bedtime snack help or hurt?” and the ever-seductive, “To nap or not to nap…?” How we answer these questions can have a big impact on how conducive our lifestyle is to supporting our bodies’ natural rhythms for falling and staying asleep.

This month’s, “Sleep Solutions” workshop on April 21st will help answer these questions and others, as well as provide a slew of simple yet useful tips you can employ at home for better sleep. Simple tips like: “Leave your alarm set, even on weekends,” and, “Nap for 20 minutes but not more,” can have a big impact. Come and find out what science says about how and why we sleep, what happens when sleep isn’t working, and most importantly, what can we do (and how can yoga help!) to put the vicious cycle of sleeplessness…to bed.

Register now for SLEEP SOLUTIONS: YOGA TIPS FOR BETTER SLEEP .

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Clear Communication

heart-shaped-leavesWhile practicing this evening in my bedroom my little boy, Andreas, came in and asked, “Why do you do yoga so much?”

Several possible answers came to mind. I thought, “this is what I do,” “this is the business I have,” “yoga is my life,” but what I actually said was, “Because I love it.”

Completely satisfied with my simple response, Andreas said, “Oh,” and went on about his business. My communication was clear and heartfelt and that’s all that was needed.

Isn’t it nice when communication works this way? When we don’t overstate, or over explain, justify or defend, when we just say what’s simple and true and that’s enough?

Yoga helps us do this! We get in touch with what’s in our hearts and then slow our minds and bodies down enough so that when we communicate we can do so intentionally and truthfully.

We have some amazing workshops coming up at Lila Yoga that are all about slowing ourselves down, tuning in to what’s true and the healing that can come when we do.

This weekend’s CHAKRA SERIES #5: CLEAR COMMUNICATION with Natalie Ginapp, will help you access the power that comes when your communications are in alignment with your heart and see how your yoga practice can support you in this.

Then in April you don’t want to miss Darcy Stewart’s SLEEP SOLTUTIONS: YOGA TIPS FOR BETTER SLEEP. Life is just better when we get a good night’s sleep! This workshop will give you everything you need to ensure that you start getting the sleep you need.

And finally in May we welcome Rebekkah LaDyne back to Lila Yoga for her THE HEALING POWER OF MINDFULNESS workshop. One more opportunity to slow down, get in touch with your heart and learn how practicing mindfulness can have a healing effect on your life.

Join us for classes and all of these important workshops. We look forward to supporting you on your path.

Namaste,

Kelly Valenzuela

Lila Yoga Director

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Completing 2012 – Creating 2013

Recently a student and I were discussing different religious holidays and their meanings. She shared with me that Rosh Hashanah (the Jewish New Year) is particularly powerful for her because it is a time to reflect on the previous year, to consider who you may have wronged and to ask that person(s) for forgiveness. I find this practice so beautiful – intentionally taking time to reflect, to be honest, to be humble and to ask forgiveness.

This conversation has stayed with me, and while thinking about completing 2012 it occurred to me that the way to get something truly “complete,” so that there is no regret, no hidden unfinished business lingering in the heart or mind, the way to true completion is to ask for and offer forgiveness. In forgiveness, whether asking for it or offering it, whether forgiving ourselves or someone else, we surrender our ego, we let go of being right and of expectations, and instead choose peace. Forgiveness frees up our hearts and makes space for something new. Space to create something aligned with our hearts and our truest intentions.

As we celebrate the end of 2012 and ring in the New Year, we will of course have the opportunity to set intentions for 2013. (Your yoga mat is a powerful place to do that!) What if, before setting those intentions we took time to reflect, to ask for and offer forgiveness? (Also greatly facilitated by time on your mat ;-) ). What would it be like to begin our new year clear, free and at peace?

This week at Lila Yoga we’re here to help you complete 2012 and create 2013 powerfully and lovingly. On New Year’s Eve join Kelly for a Special Gentle Hatha class at 4:00. Then come back on New Year’s Day for Emily’s 2 hour workshop, Intention from the Heart. Finally celebrate with us all day on Sunday 1/6 with our Full Day 2nd Anniversary Celebration including a magical Live Class with Steve Gold.

These events are filling up – register soon!
Wishing you peace,

Kelly Valenzuela

Lila Yoga Director

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